The SheisFEM Diary entry no. 05 Field Notes
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Building A System So AI Does The Heavy Lifting

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You don't need more hours — you need a system that runs without you. Here's how one conversation with a friend turned into two AI-built systems that keep paying me back in time.

A friend and I were trying to solve the same problem last week: we both want to show up more for the brands we're building on the side, and neither of us has the time for it. She has a kid. I have family living with me. Both of us have full-time jobs eating the best hours of the day. Content — TikTok, social, whatever platform — always loses to everything else on the list.

We didn't land on "try harder." We landed on something more useful: stop trying to manufacture more time, and build a system that works without you in the room.

Not a hack. Not a shortcut. An actual system — set up once, using AI tools we already had access to, built to run in the background so the work compounds instead of starting from zero every time.


What "build a system" actually meant

Here's the part of that conversation I keep coming back to.

So much of what fills a woman's plate isn't optional to begin with. We're usually the ones holding things together for other people, and anything we want for ourselves has to fit around that — not instead of it. Which means "find more time" was never going to work for either of us. There isn't more time hiding somewhere.

What we can do is stop treating every repetitive task like it needs a human doing it manually, every single time. Chat with Claude, ChatGPT, Gemini, Perplexity — whichever tool you already use — and in less than an hour you can walk away with a system that keeps working for weeks or months after that one conversation. You tweak it as you go. You can even adapt it for other things later.

Set the system up once. Let it run. Tweak it as you go. That's the whole model.


What I actually built — and the thing I keep coming back to

In practical terms, that meant sitting down with Claude, Claude Cowork, and Claude in Chrome and building two small systems: a content reference bank that saves and organizes what's already working so I'm never starting from a blank page, and a YouTube-to-playbook system that turns video transcripts into a distilled summary instead of me watching ten videos for the same handful of insights. Neither took long to set up. Both are still running for me right now.

But the systems themselves aren't really the point. Only you know exactly where your own time is going — not your friend, not a template, not a productivity influencer with a completely different life than yours. That's why this works better than a generic hack: the system gets built around your specific bottleneck, because you're the only one who can see it clearly.


Field notes: how to build your own time-saving system this week

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  1. Name the task you avoid. Not the task you're bad at — the one you dread. Dread is usually a sign that a task is repetitive, not that it's hard. That's your starting point.
  2. Ask the AI tool to interview you first. Before asking for a solution, describe the task in detail and let the tool ask you follow-up questions. You'll often find the real bottleneck is smaller and more specific than you thought.
  3. Build for "good enough," not perfect. Your first version doesn't need to be polished. It needs to save you time once. Refine it the second or third time you use it.
  4. Give it a job it can run without you. A real system doesn't need babysitting — reviewing research, summarizing documents, sorting information into something you can act on quickly. If you're still doing all the manual work yourself, it's not a system yet.
  5. Reuse it before you improve it. The instinct is to keep tweaking. Resist that. Use it as-is two or three times first — you'll learn more from real use than from guessing what might go wrong.

If you want a deeper look at how to actually think alongside AI tools instead of just using them for one-off tasks, I've been reading Co-Intelligence: Living and Working with AI by Ethan Mollick — one of the clearest, most practical breakdowns of how to build real habits around these tools instead of treating them like a novelty. Worth picking up: Co-Intelligence on Amazon


The reminder

You don't need someone else's system. You need to know where your own time disappears, and then sit down with a tool you already have access to and build the thing that solves your specific problem.

That's how you get time back — for whatever "more" means to you right now.

That's this week's entry. If you build one small system this week, tell me what it was — I'd love to hear where your time was actually going.

Until next time,
xo, Tomi
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